Being a learner for life, there is a long way for me to learn many things, from the past, the present, and the future. I have been blessed to get a chance to acquire knowledge from the most reputed institutions, Indian as well as International. During my 30 years of gaining knowledge, starting at the age of three, from various academic settings, I have come across many teachers, professors, principals, deans, classmates, batchmates, seniors, juniors, alumni, coordinators, and the list goes on. And from each one of them, I have always learnt something, consciously and subconsciously, knowingly and unknowingly, many good experiences and a few not that great ones, yet learning nonetheless.
One of the electives, Managing Self and Career, that I had opted for during the PGPMX program at IIMI, has been an essential component in molding me in many ways, post the course. I am glad I opted for this elective.
The first assignment for the participating candidates was to write obituaries for ourselves and submit it before the first session. Now, that was a shocker. An obituary would be a few words, but to write it for self took me almost two days—a day of denial followed by the second day of thinking and drafting. It made me realize that when we are alive, we generally don’t think of the ‘what-ifs’ that may have turned our life stories into a very different one and casually ignore the ‘what-ifs’ in the lives of the people around us after our deaths. In fact we don’t or rather avoid thinking of death despite us being nothing but mortal human beings.
The program was extremely interesting supported with enlightening case studies and published articles by experts in the field. However, another class activity that stayed with me was SWOT Analysis—not of a company but of one-self. I know SWOT, I apply it to various projects and assignments. But until 2017, I had never applied it to myself. And there it was, Strengths-Weaknesses-Opportunities-Threats charted for myself, right on a page glaring at me. It was like a revelation—what I am versus what I would be or could be.
Managing Self and Career was just an elective, but I think it had a major impact on me than the rest of the sessions. No, I am not all learnt yet, nor will I ever be. But yes, I am a work-in-progress, and today I am a better version than what I was yesterday. This is due to the conscious efforts applied on a daily basis to realize and recognize the strength that could be a weakness with over confidence and the weakness that could be strength with a slight boost in confidence. Well, maybe someday I will master the art of balancing the S and W and match it with the O and T to create an aura of positivity around me that inspires everyone who crosses my path in the journey called life.
…Ashu Bolar